Work Will Keep Us Together—When We Build Work-Life Balance as a Team

Ask ten people about their ideal work-life balance, and you will get ten different answers. As a manager, you have to find your own balance, and you must consider the varied work-life balance definitions among your staff while simultaneously ensuring productivity and success. The concept isn’t new, but the COVID-19 pandemic may provide you with a larger glimpse into your employees’ home lives. Their life demands such as caring for young children or managing health concerns may now intrude in the workspace in more obvious ways.

Regardless of how you and your company define work-life balance, experts offer some key findings.

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Be the Motivator—Save the World!

We’ve been talking a lot these past few months about motivation, including getting ourselves motivated. One of our roles as a colleague—whether we’re officially in a leadership role or not—is to help inspire the people around us. If we seem angry all the time, don’t listen, or don’t seem to care, our less-than-stellar behavior affects those around us.

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Don’t Let Your Work Knock You Down: Getting Yourself Motivated

Recently, we wrote about motivation and how it’s rooted in activation, persistence, and intensity. When faced with a new task or project, sometimes we feel genuine excitement and can’t wait to get going on it. Too often, however, knowing we have to do something fills us with a Sisyphean dread that demoralizes us before we begin.

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Achieving the Impossible Dream (by Getting Motivated)

In the business world, some people seem able to accomplish every task they set for themselves, while others struggle to meet basic requirements. We generally all fall somewhere along the motivation continuum, and we may have specific areas where we feel especially unmotivated—or those where we have boundless energy. This post can help you tap into your motivations.

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How to Increase the Grit in Your Organization

Grit is the ability to stick with something over time until you’ve accomplished your goal, met your challenge, or mastered your skill. What causes one manager to decide to quit for an “easier job,” while another battles setback after setback and through it all keeps asking for more support to improve her leadership skills? It’s all about grit, and organizations can take steps to build it in their people.

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Can I Teach Someone how to Be a Leader?

A colleague expressed it well: she knew how to teach technical tasks, like how to add a user account, but she doesn’t believe it’s possible to teach soft, squishy skills, like how to lead. As the creator and facilitator of our leadership development program, Gillespie Nimble, I’m going to shock you and say that I agree 100%.

And that’s why I’m a facilitator, not a teacher or instructor.

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How to Survive Feedback

Sometimes feedback is hard to take. In this post, I share four tips I tell new managers in our coaching sessions:

  • Remember that there’s a reason you were selected for this position.
  • Be honest with yourself about how you’re feeling at the moment. 
  • Look at the feedback from a distance.
  • Acknowledge what you need to acknowledge.
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Chronic Body Odor and Communication

Talking costs nothing, doesn’t trigger sensitivities to fragrance, and could actually solve the problem, instead of coating it in floral scent. However, it’s a lot harder to raise a sensitive issue than it is to spray an air freshener. As a new or seasoned manager, you’re going to face lots of difficult conversations. So, how do you address sensitive and difficult conversations with your direct reports? Let’s look at the technique we explore in Gillespie Nimble.

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Beyond the MBA: Three Interpersonal Skills Every Manager Should Master

“You are hired for your technical skills and fired for your lack of interpersonal skills.” Over the years, I’ve seen the truth of this play out time and again.

With that in mind, an article in Chief Learning Officer magazine[1] recently caught my eye. It posed the question: Are MBAs still a valuable development tool?

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Triangles Belong in Geometry, Not in Teams

First-time managers face a range of challenges—complicated dynamics with their colleagues, managing friends, establishing credibility, and sometimes, managing older or more experienced peers. In Gillespie’s work with new managers, we see one challenge again and again: triangulation. Triangulation happens when a new manager is faced with an uncomfortable situation and complains about it to a friend or ally, rather than talking to the source of the problem. This issue is prevalent throughout organizations and damaging to teams.

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